Learnt a lesson

A good friend of mine gave me the advice:
 
"if you want to have real friends who care about youur feeling, then care about your friends, concern about them.. care if they’re happy or not, im sure they’ll do the same to you".

 
I suddenly realized that I have been selfish all the time, and always wait for friends to come up to me. So it’s time to make a change, I will try my best to care for my friends.
 
ps: thanks for the advice……
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9 Responses to Learnt a lesson

  1. louischw says:

    投我以桃,報之以禮。

  2. Cici says:

    你的朋友真了解你~!
    但我觉得必要时,人还是要自私一点~! ^_^

  3. tan says:

    曾几何时我也是抱着这种态度做人,可是被伤害过无数次后,开始怀疑这会不会只是一个自欺欺人的观点。会不会是人家觉得你有利用价值,所以暂时对你好。大多数的人是自私的,选择好了,才好对人好,否则受伤害的还是自己。。。
    愿你可以找到值得你真心付出的朋友。。。

  4. Nicole says:

    和別人相處是一門困難的課,完全沒有特定的方法可依循。有些朋友會忽略掉你的關心,一直把你往門外推或者根本無動於衷,到最後你會覺得,“既然大家記性都不好(記不起要聯絡),我也記性不好算了。”疏離也許就是他們習慣的方式。有些人打從一開始就很熱情,你卻會覺得想逃….要做到剛剛好,很難。朋友永遠是你的一面鏡子,無論任何感情,都沒辦法單方面維繫。

  5. sushi says:

    完全赞同你朋友所说的。=)也很感激他能让你理解….
    我的交友第一原则就是真心相待,无论是哪类型的朋友。
     
    一旦真心付出了,就别渴望他能为你做些什么喔~~
    因为所谓“真心”付出,是不会奢求些什么回报的,我觉得。
     
    往这方面去想的话,
    自然不难发现你身边随时会出现许多用心关怀着你的人~  ^v^
     
    希望sushi可以列为"被你关怀"之一的人选啦~~ 哈哈!^o^
     
     

  6. Cloud says:

    有时候我觉得我们有点像~
    看到你这篇日志,觉得他也是在提醒我!

  7. Nicholas says:

    totally agree with ur friend…
     
    so… concern about me!!!! muahaha

  8. Loh says:

    ai..我一直都觉得自己也不会关心别人的,往往只有别人关心我
    应该要学习付出了。。

  9. Peter says:

    Cannot be more agreeable. Words of Wisdom. Not only for friends, for our relatives too. Imagine how many of us actually meet most of our relatives once a year, that is during Chinese New Year celebration.

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